My Ad
If you’ve been reading here for a while, you know that I’m a widow who lived a DD life and who understands my needs as both a bottom and submissive, and who has developed significant comfort with the way spanking and submission are healthy part of my sexuality and my identity.
I’m in my late 40’s, and I’ve lived life, so I’ve got the marks, lines and soft parts that normally come with this. I was very active until my late 30’s, and accidents from those years have destroyed my right knee, so for the next year or so until that can be repaired, I’ll be a crummy walking partner. If you need a hard body athlete I’m not for you. By the same token I’ve lived a lot and understand many things which makes me a pretty darned good listener and friend. I don’t judge based on body I need the man, his heart, his mind, his ideas and dreams
I’m a gemini, a communicator, I’m smart (smart enough to scare off some men), I have many many interests, and I like to talk about and explore them. I love hearing other points of veiw and I love being convinced through logic. I’m Christian, and yet very open to the substance of all faiths. I’m also very shy. If you’re bugged by chatting on the phone and somtimes insecure quiet in person, I’m not for you.
I’m hoping that there is another healthy monogamous partner out there for me. I’m seeking a realist, 50 or older, who knows himself. It is good if he’s respectful of his sadistic side as long as he’s not afraid or ashamed of it. I seek someone who likes to spank for fun, and also needs to be in charge and will use spanking to bring me along when reason fails. I need someone who will find my hiden massochist a match for his hidden sadist during sex play yet he knows this does not belong in the day to day DD HOH dynamic.
Compatibility matters more than sex. Understanding matters as much as dominance. Being my friend is as important to me as being my lover.
Participation with me in this public venue is not required, but acknowledgement that it is part of me is a must.
Someone close to TX, willing to be the one who travels, for now anyway, is preferred.
I’m not looking for casual partners, and while occasional playful switching is not out of the question, I am a submissive and the bottom. Please don’t respond if these boundaries are something you think you can change once you get me in your spell.
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