Creative Spanko Wench Blog

I WANT EVERYTHING

I am a 52 year old divorced woman living in Westchester County, NY (1/2 hour from Manhattan). I have been out of my spanking closet for about 5 years and know I cannot ever go back in. I am not exactly looking for a disciplinarian, but rather a delicious life mate who is the love of my life (and adores my bottom). I was divorced this summer from a marriage I felt trapped in for years — I am thrilled!!

Anyway, that marriage lacked happiness and passion and love and affection and loving spankings. I need all of those things in any relationship I form from this point forward and will not settle for less.

I do not have the tolerance of some I have seen in the spanking arena. I am allergic to wood, canes, lexan and anything else that smacks of torture…

I spoke at length to a man on line last week. He immediately thought he had the right to top me and make demands. I was sort of stunned, and he lost any chance at meeting me due to his entitlement issues. Whomever I give that kind of attention to has earned it. Word of caution, though: I have a mind of my own.

I have an 11 year old son who has my heart — he lives with me and our 1 dog, 2 cats, 1 rat and 2 ferrets (got the ferrets this week to replace the ex husband.

I am not great at these ad type things — maybe I said too much, maybe I said too little… a conversation would set those things straight, yes?