Archive for October, 2007

Happy All Hallows Eve … A Spankee Idea…

Wednesday, October 31st, 2007

Celtic in origin, Samhain, the ritual celebration of the change of season, where November 1 represented the end of summer and the harvest of crops.  A sacred ritual Samhain bonfire was lit and attended by all on the evening before - Oct. 31 - The Celts associated this time of year with death, and believed that at this time of year the spirits of the dead returned to the earth along with otherworldy spirits.  The ritual fire along with animal sacrifice and offerings of treasured crops to the fire by members of the village dressed in costumes -typically animal skins and heads; was thought to distract and attract and please all spirits including any negative spirits and thus protect the bulk of their crops from destruction.  The Celtic’s Druid preists believed that the sacred bonfires attracted the swarm of otherworldly spirits who came to earth on the Samhain evening as summer came to an end, and the presence of these spirits aided them in predicting the trials of the coming winter and subsequent planting season, thus helping them guide their communities.

The Romans came along and eventually absorbed the Celts that they didn’t kill, but typical of conquering societies, they didn’t completely userp the belief systems they could exploit.  Two Roman holidays found themselves blended with the Celtic celebration of Samhain; Feralia - the Roman celebration of the dead and the day honoring Pomona, the goddess of fruit and trees whose symbol features an apple.

Christians came along too, later on, and while the pagan nature of the October 31 nightime ritual was frowned on, Pope Boneface the !V declared Nov. 1 “All Souls day,” a day to honor all dead saints and martyrs.  Knowing the repeated motives of the Chatohic church - to usurp and replace all things pagan - it’s probable that his decree was an attempt to dilute an established pagan holiday with a sanctioned religious holiday.  {Christmas & Easter have similar histories}  The Catholics named Nov 1, All Hallows Day, or alternatively, All Hallowmass.  Hence the evolution of the Celtic/Druid Samhain, to All Hallows Eve or Halloween. 

The tradition of costumes disguising the celebrant began with the Celts.  The tradition of tricking negative spirits away from valued crops - diverting them with a huge ritual fire, and the treating them with sacraficial offering of some of the best of crops and animals began with the Celts in Ireland and the UK.

It’s possible that similar evolution condensed from Myan and Aztec traditions when Catholicism infiltrated their words.  Halloween is relatively new in these cultures, but Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) is a long, long long celebrated holiday, though it has moved on the calendar since the 1400’s and is now celebrated from after dark on Oct 31 through daylight on Nov 1.  Parades, celebrating the dead, even some debauchery and excess own the night, and then deep prayer, confession and contemplation offers respect on Nov. 1 once daylight takes over.

Well…   I think the candy thing’s the pitts (I’m not really a sweets person unless its a coffee crip candy bar once or twice a year, and for the past 2 years I’ve stopped giving out candy … just apples and rice crispy treats now - if I’m home, wasn’t last year and didn’t get in till 7 PM this year - so I’ll take the rice crispy’s to work & keep the apple just for me),

The trick or treat ritual is a great idea, I think.  Specially for spankos.  The trick of course is required of the spankee, and then the treat must be the spanking the trickster requires….  I think this holiday occurs far too infrequently and we spankos just might want to think about at least quarterly.   Spanko’een(halloween), Spankmas (Christmas), SpankMMMday maybe on the UK/Canadian holiday that often corresponds to or is the week before US Memorial day, Spanker’sday honored on Labor day.

Wish I could figure out how to post a poll using this software, but tell me/us should we as a spanking community attach/adapt existing holidays to our purposes and hint to our peers that, all factors being favorable, fun spankings otta be celebrations and there are occasions we might all want to consider as shared?  How neet it would be to go over a spanker’s knee knowing I am not the only one enjoying this special satisfaction.

????????????????????  any thoughts

Ghoulish …. the last of the halloween party pics…

Monday, October 29th, 2007

OK, as promised pics from the party…..

My hand prints…

closer up …

my hand after…. a little bleached out by the flash, but see how puffy and hot my fingers got?

And then there was me….

Doc has my legs squished together under his right leg, and I’m kind of flat laying across his left leg on his soft and broad ‘perfect for spanking’ sofa.  Not only that but while he was actually spanking me my panties had been pulled up in a wedgie.  Sarah very graciously tried to put my lacy coverage back before allowing the after pics to be taken, but the crotch stayed kind of bunched up.  Not the most flattering view/angle, but hey -old butts look like old butts.  LOLOL! 

If you look close you’ll also get a glimpse of Doc’s devilish red spanking briefs.  Red is his color, trust me.  *grin*

I think you just might get an idea from the full color un-blurry view about why there was enough of a struggle during that my ribs cramped….

You can see cane marks from earlier play and Doc’s spanking really brought out the vertical cane strokes that were not visible before he applied the straps and bath brush…

There you go.  Back to work for me. 

I’m looking forward to December when I can breath a huge sigh of relief with this one very major, labor and time intensive project finished.  I have five other serious deadlines inserted inside this same window, but if I survive to Dec 3 and beyond I’ll send up a huge thank you to God and celebrate. Of course January just brings on more projects and new add on’s and extras.

Ahhh well… 

Hope everyone is having a good week.  4 of you liked Chapter 2 of Strapford wives, what about the rest of you?  Is it that boring? ;)

Strapford Wifes: Part 2

Wednesday, October 24th, 2007

Strapford Wives

Part2

Their route out of San Antonio took them past Sea World, which precipitated a brief if not so minor melt down from the back seat.  It was moving day, and they wanted to beat the movers to the new house, so an outing at Sea World was not in the cards.  For some reason a new house, new neighborhood, hiking trails and new friends to meet didn’t quite equal whales and dolphins in the minds of a seven and nine year old being uprooted for the second time in 5 months.  Colin handled the dissent well, Gabby felt guilty.   Had she been alone making the drive with her boys, she probably would have indulged at least a four hour diversion. 

It took a few hours, but once they made the turn onto the winding tree lined FM 77265 (FM = farm to market road) and passed the sign welcoming them to Hickory Trails boredom and apprehension gave way to excitement.  The keystone of the “Town Center” was a beautiful sprawling park where children and attentive parents and couples strolled.  The shops rimmed the lane that branched around the park.  The route through Hickory trails ended in a 20 mph circle that offered three options, a loop back to the lanes branching off the other side of the park square, a fork off to Birch Terrace or another up to Leatherwood Heights. 

“Want to tour Birch Terrace first?” Colin asked.

“Not today honey,” Gabby responded more to fatigue than curiosity.  She did want to see the other community since the brochures didn’t even come close to doing justice to Hickory Trails, but for now, she most wanted to get into her home and begin to situate – a chore she knew was going to take months.   Brian (7) and Justin (9) were also more than ready to get out of the Land Rover too. 

Leatherwood Heights was a little over a mile further up into the hills north of Hickory Trails.  The ‘town’s’ hub was situated along a broad mile long boardwalk that was built on the East side of a crystal clear lake fed by filtered surface run off which further filtered deep underground into a huge underground water feature known as the Edwards aquifer.  Eight narrow lanes fanned further up the hills, each looping back on themselves just beyond their exit from the hub.  Each, a little over a mile up and back was sparsely populated with only two or three, five acre properties branching off them.  Theirs was at the nadir of Ironwood Crescent. 

Gabby was awestruck when Colin slowed and turned their SUV into their driveway.   Terra cotta brick pillars framed the entrance to their ‘homestead’ and plaques on both welcomed them – 02 Ironwood Crescent - The Mclean Residence.  The plaques on each pillar were identical.  The house wasn’t immediately visible, but just a quick turn and a dip, and there it was – three stories, the same terra cotta color brick as the pillars that welcomed them – hunter green trim and shutters.  Again, the pictures and brochures did no justice to the reality.   Flowerbeds were already fully planted and in bloom!

“This is ours?” Gabby whispered.   Their name already fixed to the entry pillars answered her question, but something in her needed Colin’s assurance.

“This is it,” he confirmed.

The moving van was already there, and Gabby noted that there were many more than the four movers who packed them now helping to unload. 

Almost before Colin pulled the Land Rover to a full stop and released the child locks, a circle of adults and children broke off from helping the movers and came toward them.  The welcoming smiles were genuine.  Even so, Gabby balked.  “What the hell were these strangers doing handling her things, traipsing in and out of her house (new or not) without her specific invitation?” she wondered.  “Colin must have asked,” she reasoned.   She said nothing, assuming that he had, but made a mental note to take up how invaded it made her feel with him later. 

The kids from their new neighborhood swept the boys up instantly.  “Can we go? Can we go?” came out of entreaties to go see the park. 

Gabby balked shaking her head, but before she could say anything, Colin told them, “Go, have fun, but be back here by 4.  You’ve got work to do in your rooms before supper.”

“Honey?” Gabby objected.

“They’ll be fine and we’ll all do better without them underfoot after the drive.  Let them blow off steam ok?”

Gabby didn’t hide her annoyed grimace, but she nodded and then turned to finish being introduced to the posse of neighbors that she felt had swarmed her family and invaded her space.  The men almost instantly captured Colin and pulled him toward the moving van, while their wives quickly spirited Gabby up the front steps and into her new home.  Again the photographs she’d been given had done no justice to what she was now seeing in person.  Boxes occupied the center spaces of some rooms, and some of their furniture had been placed tentatively in or near the space it might logically occupy.  Her bedroom was already unpacked and arranged!  So was her kitchen!  “Who the hell do you people think you are?” Gabby muttered under her breath.  Her aggravation went mostly unnoticed, but one of her new peers wrapped her arm around her and tugged her close…

“Takes a bit of getting used to, they mean well though,” Linda (Leatherwood’s now second newest wife) whispered.   “Rearrange when they leave.  It’s not as much work as unpacking on your own, trust me.”

Gabby laughed.  “Everyone gets this?”

“Yup,” Linda nodded.  “Can’t say you’ll get used to it, but I recommend you let them get all the heavy work done before you complain to Colin.  If he says word one to the husbands they’ll call the wives off.  Trust me you don’t really want that right off the bat.”

“I’ve unpacked and moved on my own before,” Gabby was puzzled by Linda’s stance.

“And it was a whole lot of work right?” Linda chuckled.

“Yes?” Gabby shrugged.  “So?”

“Just let them.  It’s expected.  Buck the culture here and you’ll make it harder on yourself than necessary.  This isn’t any town USA, but no matter how you feel now and what it’s going to be like for you getting your sea legs here in the next six months, it’s worth all of it.  It’s worth it,” Linda cupped Gabby’s face and captured her attention with a sincere smile.

And so, within a few hours Gabby and Colin were moved in and almost completely unpacked.  A chore Gabby expected was going to take her months was accomplished by strangers on only hours.  Gabby had questions for Linda, but she couldn’t find the words.  What did she mean saying ‘buck the culture here’, or ‘make it harder on herself,’ and most especially what was it ‘going to be like getting her sea legs here?’  The questions didn’t get asked.  The rest of the day just moved too fast.

Within a half hour, Gabby was separated from Linda, spun around from neighbor to neighbor and by 4 PM she was completely exhausted.  Her boys came home exactly on time, raced up to their new rooms, and with their new friends completely moved in to their new rooms before the barbeque supper was made ready for all.   Burgers, hot dogs, fajitas and steaks hit the grill, guacamole, potato salad, pico de gallo, salsa, buns, mustard, ketchup and minced onions all appeared with beverages (both virgin and alcohol laden) without Gabby her kids or even Colin even lifting a finger. 

“Absorb, just absorb,” she told herself as every one of their new neighbors made a point to welcome them.  By the time the food was ready literally every Leatherwood Heights family had joined those who’d been there to help move them in.   Gabby politely accepted apologies from the few women who’d been unable to help her unpack.  She was a bit unnerved by how distressed some of them seemed to feel.  Not even her assurances that she really wanted to situate her own family and they shouldn’t give it a second thought seemed to help alleviate their worry.

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Well after midnight, their boys finally settled in bed, Colin walked Gabby through their new home’s custom security and communication system.  From their bedroom and master bath they could see and hear every room in the house. 

“Seems like over kill to me honey?  Why do we need such an elaborate system?” she asked.

“Because this part of the house is isolated and acoustically separate,” his grin was evil.  “We can and need to hear them, but they can’t hear us.”

“Hmmmm?” Gabby smiled and kissed her husband.  “What possible benefit could that be?”

They puttered together putting sheets on the bed and finding the box with their quilts and pillows so that going to bed comfortably would be possible.  They were both exhausted yet wired by all of the day’s stimulation.

“Is it just me, or are these people kind of intense?”  Gabby nudged Colin once their evening wound down, their boys were in bed and they were alone in their nearly situated master bedroom.

“Don’t you like them?” Colin seemed to miss her point.

“I didn’t say that,” Gabby reacted more intensely than she intended.

“You don’t!” Colin stiffened.

“No Colin!  I didn’t say that!  It’s a first for us though and you know it.  All of these people helping and everyone who couldn’t help apologizing like they’d been negligent?  It’s weird.” Gabby thought she was stating something her husband already knew, even though this was true.   —

[He had been welcomed by a mentor as she had been, and the message he’d been given was one he’d always identified with.  “Get your wife in line.”

How to do that was discussed extensively while furniture was moved and reassembled and heavy boxes were opened and emptied.    “Spank her soundly according to her offense.” 

“Her offense?”  Colin feigned ignorance.“Are you the head of your household or is Gabby?”

“We both are.” Colin responded honestly.

“So who decides when you don’t agree?”

“We talk, we pray and I say,” Colin knew immediately where the conversation was going.

“Should she challenge your public decisions about your family?”

“I know what you mean,” Colin acknowledged.  “That is an area we haven’t had much reason to formally approach as a couple. Gabby is normally relaxed and comfortable with our shared direction.  Her resistance earlier was very much out of character, I think the move has her off balance.”

“You’ll appreciate the influence she’ll enjoy here.”

“Give us some time to ease in, we’re a good fit here, some things deserve gentle guiding,” Colin chuckled.

“A firm hand works faster.”

Colin left that reference to hang in the air unanswered.  Before he publicly discussed the nuances of the culture he’d brought his family, especially his wife into, he needed to let Gabby ease into it.  He knew she was wired to find comfort in a community where the male was expected to be the head of household, but so far, they’d only taken baby steps in the domestic discipline department.  It wouldn’t be fair to her to have the community assume that either of them were fully savvy in the ways of their new peers..] —

“Sweet heart, I’m only going to ask you this once more.  Trust me.  This is a good place for us, I wouldn’t betray us, and even if you can’t trust that yet, we’re here.  Go with it.  Open up to it.  This is not the only place in the world where neighbors place community first, and if I have to remind you how many times you’ve marveled at it on TV and said this was what you most dreamed about in a community, so help me!” Colin tried to stop Gabby’s semi irritated chatter about the benign, even loving invasion that was really nothing more than an enthusiastic welcome.

“It was invasive and intense Colin!” Gabby insisted.

“No Gabriel, it was friendly.  These people are glad we’re here, and we owe them.  You know darned well it would have taken us months to unpack properly never mind put furniture back together on our own.  The only thing left for us to do is rearrange and decorate.  Hell brat, you and I both know that left alone, we’d still have unpacking to do this time next year!”

Colin’s tone was tighter than Gabby was used to.  She felt an irresistible urge to force compression and squeeze out whatever he was trying to hold in.“Okay!  Pa-ardon meEeee!  Gawd Colin! Okay, they’re friendly.  Freaky friendly, but pardon me for being me and not quite knowing how to take them!” she snipped.

As she anticipated (and hoped) Colin didn’t like the snide shift Gabby’s response had taken.

“Go fill the tub, I’ll finish this and join you in a few minutes,” Collin stiffened and turned a serious warning gaze on his wife.The tub in their master bath was a large ‘garden tub’ with whirlpool jets, more than large enough for both of them.  “And if I’m not finished with what I have to say?” Gabby shot back. 

Her retort found and fully engaged a needful raw edge in her husband’s being setting in motion events that would make this day one they would both forever remember as pivotal.“You’re going to find out what I have to say, and just maybe more than my voice will do the talking, but first we’re going to relax and soak,”  Collin’s answer was almost a growl.

“What?  You gonna spank me?” Gabbie laughed.

“Yes I am.” Colin answered.  There was no humor in his response.

“Better not try,” Gabby spoke under her breath, though her thought found no voice.  Something deeper insider her heart was ambivalent about that threat.She obeyed and withdrew from the possibility of more conflict and ste her purpose to doing what her husband asked of her; fill the tub and make it ready for them.  Gabby was stripped and settled in the hot water as it rose above the jets.  She’d trickled Laura Ashley’s “Emma”§   body lotion into the water along with Ivory shower gel.  “Emma” was her scent, and the shower gel promised only the addition of a clean frothy foam and lather.

When Colin climbed in with her, his bulk pushed the water level up enough that they had to turn off the tap.  There were many cleansing and delicious activities they were able to do with just suds and the jets.  After a long prelude of kissing, caress, washing and touch, Gabby felt clean and safe.  In that state, she rinsed her torso and then climbed over and eased on top and mounted Colin’s fully erect penis.  The shuddering gasp that came from him as she pressed down seating herself fully on him – answering her need for and love of him exactly where it needed to be, was almost perfect. They were both so tired and distracted that the tub had to be drained of tepid water and refilled hot twice while Gabby rode Colin gently.

I love you,” Colin smiled after the last refill as he cupped her breasts kneading them with his firm hands and gently pinching and twisting her nipples.  Gabby shuddered with the exquisite thrill of sensation that act sent through her.  It was as if a tense silken cord was woven through her torso connecting her nipples to her clit and g spot. The temptation to pick up her pace and ride him faster was almost impossible to resist, but she needed slow loving – wanted to revel in the protracted build up to climax that fatigue and desire conspired to make possible every so often.  

“I love you too!” Gabby gasped.  “Mmmmmmmmmmmmm!”

“Like that?” he crooned

“Too much,” she nodded.  

“Grind me.  Settle down tight on me, rock and grind.  Squeeze your pussy on me,” Collin commanded and reinforced his authority by tightly squeezing and twisting her nipples.

“Ohhh! Honey! I’m going to come too fast!” Gabby’s whine was lost on Colin.  

“Let go sweet pea, or I’ll lose myself on you.”

“You’re close too?”

“You know it.”

“OK!” Gabby dropped her torso onto Colin and obeyed him.  She pressed her clit down onto his pelvis, filling herself fully with him.  The sensory fullness this caused pushed her rapidly beyond pleasure toward climax.  His length massaged the pressure sensitive entrance to her womb, his girth caused her movements to knead her very responsive g spot and her rocking-circling motion against his body directly stimulated her ultra sensitive clit.

“Oh fuck!” Colin telegraphed his state.  “Not yet baby.  More of that!”

“I’m going to come honey!” Gabby whispered, biting Colin’s left shoulder, trying to hold out.  She was rapidly reaching the point of no return.

“Work it for me!” his voice was husky.  

Gabby closed her eyes losing herself to the bliss his request and what they were sharing induced.

“Oh fuck!” he gasped.  “Fuck!”

Gabby felt Colin’s body tense under her.  “Now?” she begged.

“Now!” he pulled her face to his taking her mouth deeply with his tongue.

“Mmmmmmmmmmmmm.” Vocal release of both of their initial climactic spasms was contained in that deep kiss.  When their kiss broke only due to their shared need for air, their shared release became vocal.  Gabby’s climax preceded Colin’s by only a few contractions. “You’re wonderful,” Colin kissed Gabby’s closed eyes wrapping his arms around her trembling body.

“Thank you!” she whispered.  “You’re amazing!”

Slow easy coupled rocking followed well after the last waning contractions of climax passed.  Gabby rested and reveled comfortably on her husband’s torso until his erection subsided fully.  Colin was the one to nudge her off and around to sit up facing him.  They rinsed the slick film of sexual sweat off of each other, and Colin carefully massaged her pussy clean of the milky, gossamer silken weave of her arousal and his seed.

Colin pulled the plug and they both stood to climb out of the tub, each wrapped the other in one of the bath towels Gabby dug out of one of the few boxes not disturbed by her new neighbors.  Their new bathtub was officially broken in, Gabby grinned as Colin’s firm hands briskly toweled her dry letting that thought take her mind.  Her technique for toweling Colin dry was decidedly gentler.  Gentle or not, neither Gabby’s toweling technique nor the sex that transpired between them worked to distract Colin from the promise he’d made before sending her to prepare their bath.

Both were dressed for bed, Gabby in one of her over sized T-shirts and plain white ‘fruit of the loom’ high cut panties, and Colin in his T-shirt and briefs; Gabby pulling back the bedding on her side of the bed, when Colin caught her by the wrist and said, “We have some unfinished business yet Gab.”

“What?” her question was genuine.

“You taunted me to spank you and I told you I would do it,” he almost seemed to grin.

“I’m too tired to play any more honey,” Gabby objected.

“You weren’t playing when you taunted, and I wasn’t playing when I promised to do it.  We’re both going to follow through now,” Colin’s answer was firm.

“You mean it?  You’re going to spank me for real?”

“Yes, I do, and I’m going to do it right now.”

Gabby pulled back.  Her held wrist prevented escape.  Her mind spun.  They’d played with spanking from the first weeks of their 10 year marriage, and even engaged in activity that encroached on disciplinary spanking not too long ago.  She’d been absorbing and digesting that semi-disciplinary session for weeks.  On one level it was what she’d been dreaming about all her life, on another it was too close to something secret within her that she’d tried to hide from for as long as she could remember.  That being spanked for discipline had been fodder for her masturbation fantasies for all of her sexually aware life, and she’d suppressed that she’d been putting Colin in that dreamy role for all of their life together, was a secret she kept from him; a secret she feared someone might discover.  Her needs, only sporadically kissed by what seemed like isolated mostly sexual spankings held on for dear life to the back burner of her being though, defying her conscious will to put them away and suppress them.   Gabby was afraid Collin might reject her and find her disgusting if he ever knew she didn’t just desire spanking for its sexual spice, she wanted to be spanked hard, she fantasized about being taken over his lap and spanked harder than she could stand every time she was responsible for discord or stress in their lives.   To give in to her secret dreams now – this way – without disclosure and honesty – Gabby balked.

“No!” her distress was genuine, fueled by much more than fear of pain.

“Yes!” Colin pulled her close. “And we’re going to have a long talk about this tomorrow or as soon as our life allows.  I know you need this.  I need this.  We’re going to draw some lines shortly. Right now you’re getting the spanking you need and the spanking I need to give you.”  

Gabby couldn’t help the tears that escaped her eyes, nor could she pinpoint where they came from – relief, agreement, fear of discovery, fear of pain, fear of herself – her secret – her ‘deviant’ desires, dissent, embarrassment? She wanted to be spanked, yet even though her heart felt like it would beat through her chest a cadence palpably matched by an anticipatory desire that pulsed deep within her groin – with just the insinuation of a real spanking coming to fruition, the secret embarrassed part of her fought it. 

“Why?” she struggled against Colin’s secure pull.   

She was across his lap and he’d delivered a number of hard spanks before he bothered to venture an answer. “Because this is what we need as a couple,” Colin answered Gabby with all of his heart as he stepped up the soundness and pace of the already furious spanking he was administering.  He stopped only breifly after the first hard round of thirty to pull her panties down, and then set in again to make a very firm impression. 

Colin’s steal gaze before pulling her over his lap wilted her fight, and Gabby struggled and cried, this was the hardest and longest spanking of her life.  Though the long OTK session didn’t quite achieve its ideal goal – a thorough and open discussion of what and why; along with reconciliation of how – it was only a matter of time before that evolved if Colin’s promise that discussion was coming and lines they both needed were about to be drawn was kept.   The acoustics of their new home isolated their activities perfectly.  It was the first time Colin had ever initiated spanking officially separated from and after rather than as an element of sex, and only the second time he’d taken it into the territory of her disciplinary desires.  Gabby’s mind spun with the potential.  In the moment, she couldn’t have realized that very soon, both of them would disclose long protected secret needs.  She couldn’t have known that the marks from this spanking that she would check and touch with embarrassed longing each day as they faded were symbolic ‘marks’ of one of the most positive and generative evolutions in her life and her long afraid sense of self.



    

§ Emma perfume: no longer available – yet the only subtle and truly feminine worthy – not overpowering scent that Laura Ashley ever sold.

 

Stuff

Friday, October 19th, 2007

While there is one thing I can count on 90% of the time at work, and that is being overwhelmed with details.  There are days when the details are forced to the back burner in favor of ‘refresher training.’  Today was one of those days.  Got home late last evening, spent time taliking to my mom about the birthday gift she finally got, then went to bed only to have to get up at 6 to catch the bus.  Spent an hour visiting with buddies before the bus launched, then and hour clenching my teeth praying we’d get there in one peice.

All in all the seminar was interesting.  Didn’t hear any thing new, not even the taken from the headlines examples the speaker used, but I was enthused to see and hear buy in from frontline folks.  Baby steps as they say…. How did I cope with a long day sitting you ask?  How do I usually …

This was the morning…

 

Imagine you’re with your partner off shore?  She’s been bratty and sexy and guilty of every spankable offense possible.  Wouldn’t a quiet isolated island be a perfect place to take care of business?

 

Then this for the afternoon…  yup I’m fixed on the sensuality & sexuality of certain fruits.  Besides their shape and features, their juicy pleasure is way up there…

I can’t help it, I draw when forced to sit still in meetings or seminars.  While I have an office job, I rarely sit still.  75% of my time is spent seeing patients or staff and answering concerns.  I

Since this kink occupies a lot of the background noise of my psyche, it surfaces in everything I draw…..  a secluded place where it’s safe, possible and free, or images that suggests the luscious inuendo took me to parallel places for what might oyherwise have been painful hours……   I recall literally every word said and every question asked by the way…. it’s just me.  Cat tail switches and two fruity luscious bottom surrogates occupied my numb butted afternoon.  -  we bottoms have always known our brain is connected to our butt,  but I have discovered this is a universal feature & why speakers MUST respect the 20 minute rule.  Every human being’s ability to concentrate in any training situation is directly proprotional to their degree of butt comfort and sensitivity!   Butt’s fine = brain’s fine; butt’s numb = brain’s numb; butt and associated muscles aching NOT due to sound spanking or the promise of same = wasted day, counter nonproductive interpretations of messages and potentiall cranky or bratty behavior born of having to give up a day and having to sit for hours on end listening to a speaker who may not be worth listening too..  Only seminar euphoria may over come butt numitude, but if I may say, a sound spanking imparts significant augmentation of seminar motivation even if the speaker stunk…. especially if your spanker gets a loook at the learning goals too.

Nope no spanker assisted me through this seminar, & Gawd I sure needed one!  If I said it was tedious would you get that the content wasn’t lost on me, but the butt & mind numing compresssion got in the way of meaningful take away?

Pears, peaches, nectarines and apricotes are especially luscious reminding/invoking spankable images.  I think so any way…..

I have a long limerick underway answering everyone who posted to Friday’s delurk post.   I’ve just been exhausted keeping up.  I’m feeling down - menopuase - health stuff - and work of course….  I’m working long hours, I konk out on the sofa as soon as I get home.  I wake up at 2 AM with some energy (like now) but I’ve got to get up in 3 hours to start over.

Wish I could draw what you most want to see in the few windows of drawing time I’ve managed.  Hope this weekend will let me finishe part 2 of Spankford wives…..  

be good y’all

Love patty

 

Happy Birthday Paul

Tuesday, October 16th, 2007

There once was a wonderful Gent

Though careful with how time was spent

He made daily rounds

On blog land’s quaint grounds

Where the fair maids’ judiciously bent

Happy birthday my very good friend

I’m honored to offer my end

Panties pulled free

Bottom over your knee

Surrogate birthday wishes to spend

Close your eyes just carress the swell

The cheaks belong to your Mel

The word from the booth

Is yer a mite long of tooth

So easy to start would go well. 

 

 

happy birthday Paul

…. hey ya’ll please sign the card

DeLurk Friday

Thursday, October 11th, 2007

So, here it is October 12, 2007.  A year since the last coordinated mass Delurk invitation.  Bonnie’s invited us to do it again. 

A short invitation from me …  to all of my readers this plea.  Please everyone post a hello, cause you know I that it will make me glow… and draw and write here with glee….

To all of you silent observers

Who’ve typed “spanking” into search servers

You’ve found your way here

You need not have fear

We bloggers delight in de-lurkers

 Our regular readers we love

As they come to fit like a glove

But every new face

Is a gift and a grace

Please join in the commenter’s shove

The more the merrier indeed

“You’ve got comments waiting” ‘s a need

When I open my mail

And find that sweet hale

Motivation blooms strong as a weed

You certainly needn’t be shy

So I sure hope you’ll give it a try

Make up a screen name

Suspend any shame

Take the plunge, come out and say hi.

Pretty please.

Love

Patty

There once was a gal with a need

To be spanked till her demons were freed

She could go OTK

Almost every day

But she needed a Top for the deed.

*g*

Posted a bit early because I have to go to bed now, and get up very early tomorrow … long day, little time … but here comes the weekend… ahhhhhhhhhhhh…..

Hey y’all Tsai has shared his POV

Tuesday, October 9th, 2007

Doc Tsai has posted his version of our fun Friday night . 

Tsai, I know you switch, but never in my life - in person at least -  have I met a more secure and exemplary Top, even outside the world of spanking.  And I know we all know folks whose even vanilla personalities are dominant who couldn’t/wouldn’t switch to save their soul.

Even switching you dominate with a kind of healthy glee that I find special.  I read it in your writings and I’ve observed it in person.  You love spanking.  You love to explore limits (yours and others).  You’ve blended the two in an amazingly generative way. 

When I was a gymnast I explored my limits with a kind of passion many close to me couldn’t grasp or accept … fear, pain, endurance… I’ve never lost my comprehension of the dimensions of what pushed me then.  I still live it.  I sense that you’ve lived it all your life, and your wonderful smiling eyes - evil as you try to make them seem especially when you smile with a particular intent - show it to the world.  I just wonder what goes through the minds of your vanilla friends when they see that smile … so gleeful, so evil, so filled with dominant inuendo.

I know you like to be spanked and you like to get lost in the sensations.  I suspect you mine those experiences more than you really submit to them, and that every bottom you share with benefits. 

Just my thoughts

Can’t wait for the novel he’s gonna have to write to fill in the rest of the night.  It was so eventful!

Itchin

Tuesday, October 9th, 2007

My bum’s itching, and so is my palm.  Seriously.  I caught myself scratching my right butt cheek over the sit spot while standing in line in the cafeteria this afternoon.  I almost burst out laughing.  Wonder if anyone noticed?  I think another sound spanking would cure that itch right quick don’t you? Here it is, four days after the fact, and I’m still feeling some deep tenderness. 

The center of my right palm and the middle pads of flesh on my fingers look like they’ve been ink stained.  The weird thing is that even though the bruising on my hand became impressive and extensive, unlike my bottom, there’s been no pain in my hand.  Yesterday though when I got very cold in my office (there’s something wrong with the chillers & I practically have to wear a parka if I spend much time in there) I lost all feeling in the median nerve distribution where the bruising on my palm & fingers is most impressive.  I went to the ladies room and ran warm water over my hand for several minutes and that went away, but since then my palm’s been itchin too.  Wonder if that means I’m gonna get money or give another spankin?  

A question for you experienced spankers out there … is it normal for your palm to bruise but not hurt, and for the center of your palm and your middle fingers to go numb if you let your bruised hand get cold?

Now I know where the term itchin to spank really comes from. LOLOLOL. 

After the party

Sunday, October 7th, 2007

Home again

You know me and airports; especially airport security.  I’m a people watcher as you know.   I just wonder if men realize that the ritual of belt removal has become a secret delight for at least one relatively frequent traveler.  I especially love it when being told to remove their belt brings that unconscious wash of irritation across their face.  

I observed another man unbuckle his belt this weekend, only he didn’t slide it out of its loops.  If he had I might have lost all my nerve, as it was watching his fingers wrap and tug, his knuckles blanch ever so slightly, his dominant thumb and forefinger curling just so, as he pulled his belt’s leather tongue in opposition to it’s metal buckle was pure spanko candy.  This time though, one of the world’s most generative sadists, a through and through Top, was taking his pants down – no off – because, he was going to get a spanking; and, as you may have already guessed, I was going to give it to him.  To say I was distracted is an understatement.  I gave ten licks to a male friend once before and while it went well in the moment, everything changed after that, and everything became about me spanking him.  I had complete faith that this was not going to be the outcome this time.  Tsai was giving me a gift.  He knew I was inexperienced and only curious.  In keeping with his generative sensory nature though, he used this opportunity to teach.

When I first arrived and the name tags came out, besides one to put your name on there were 4 other pre-printed options; Top, Bottom, Switch, and Observer.  Observer was going to be my out, but I chose bottom, and placed a question mark before switch.  When asked I warned that my experience giving was limited.  There is a science to being a Top with people you don’t know … something I’ve read about, but clearly don’t have any direct experience with.  Heck I don’t even have much experience being what I am – a bottom – with people I don’t know.  

I have discovered that I am a very selfish bottom, and while I’m not sure that’s a liability if I’m going to dare acknowledge that this need of mine isn’t willing to hold out and hope for another Fred, I recognize it.  Nothing ventured, nothing gained, and as I look middle age square in the face and look back on a decade of wishing for life back, I’m not concerned any more about being judged.  I’m going to just live and be a spanko leaf in the wind for a while.  Giving what you want is selfish if you’re going to try to switch.  Talking matters… and Tsai’s not afraid to talk, or for that matter, to publicly teach that talking is essential, even if that means lifting his wedgied red boxers and pinked up ass in the air.  

I let my mind worry that one individual was playing a bit of a mind game with me; no doubt over thinking things the way I tend to do.  No matter what her intended message was, I chose to come away with a lesson learned; talk and share what both of you want first, no matter which end of an implement you want to be on.  I brought three serious toys to the party (besides the ones I asked John to make for Tsai).  She brought all three to me and hinted ‘was I serious about being a switch?’  I asked her if she was sure, and she indicated she was.  I’d watched her play very hard with several Tops with virtually no discussion about limits or lines with her at all earlier, so I wasn’t even remotely afraid I could hurt her, yet she balked after I gave her only a few licks that I know were not even remotely severe, or even particularly heavy.  When she came back to me for round three with my three tail tawse I was beginning to feel uncomfortable, hurt and used, but it was a party, right????? , I made it clear that I was a bottom whose switch style as a newbie was to give what I’d like to get.  She said “cool,” and bent over.  I gave her a bunch of wimpy to mildly stingy licks, and then I asked her outright if she’d like to get the kind of lash I’d like to get.  She said yes.  I gave it to her.  She made a public display of distress then she stopped coming to me with my toys asking for more after that.  I should have tossed it off, but I did let her into my head; probably further than I needed too.  We’ve both got lessons to learn… mine – talk, negotiate, listen & observe …  Nuff said there…. Next time I dare switch, there will be no appologies.  I’m a bottom, but if and when I switch I’ll tend to give what I’d like to get.Tsai let me spank him in the most public room in the house.  He started by reassuring me that if I hurt him or went too far as I’d feared I already had, he’d say ouch and that was OK right? I’d waffled about whether he should punish me 1st or if I’d be so wasted after that that I might doze off using his ass as my pillow.  He decided.  I spanked him first. I started with my hand and stuck with it for quite a while.  I was amazed by how easy it was to create real sting with just my little hand. I liked the feel of it.  Tsai boldly commented, while he was across my lap that he was hoping I’d start with my hand.  I smiled.  I hadn’t expected to get a reaction never mind a squirm or an ouch.   I tried my ‘brat strap’ (gift from you blog readers) then the London tanner double strap & John’s brat loop; then I went back to my brat strap; a light though stingy eighth by 2 & a half inches of leather.   Doc chose that moment to rear up and teach about spanking zones and bones.  I let him guide my index finger to his coccyx.  It was lower than I expected (lower than mine is).  While I wanted to tease that the ‘brat strap’ couldn’t possibly damage that deep, I took in the message and did my best to keep to territory below that spot; hence some very livid hand whaps to his thighs.   I put the straps away & went back to my hand & the bath brush.  These things can be much more carefully directed ya know?  

Just so you know, I gave way more than I took even if my hand is very bruised.

When the tables turned, Tsai whispered in my ear and asked me what I wanted. 

“Hard please,” is all I remember saying.  

Hand, strap, brat loop (hey – wish I’d said more of that please) strap, then the rose strap & the heavy misspelled strap I’d gifted him with, and then the bath brush.  It was a spanking to remember.  I used to be able to take much, much more.  My whole left ribs cramped!  Never had that happen before, but I couldn’t breath.  It took almost all the rest of the night for the cramps to ease.  I agreed the spanking should stop.   Bugs me that the spanking wasn’t what I couldn’t take, but if I had to say what was still the most painful I’m afraid that the inter-costal muscles on my whole left side win…. Even though my bum is nicely marked, and while mostly gone now the spanking owie stretched in to today the evening produced perfection.

My first spanking party was ever so sweet….  Too bad this day after pic is so blurry.

Ahhhhhhhhhh the endorphins…

Friday, October 5th, 2007

The party was amazing.  I must say I had so much anxiety and nervousness for no good reason.  I met some wonderful folks.  And there sure was a lot of spanking going on.  I got spanked several times, I even got a lovely caning administered by a woman who gives workshops, and has made caning an art form.  It was long and blissful I could have stayed there and floated away, but alas, there were other bottoms in need of being caned and I needed my skin to hold out. 

Then I gave a few licks to one gal.  I went a bit too hard, but then the implements she picked for me to try were kinda hard to use lightly.  I’ll never be a good Top I’m afraid.  True bottoms who try to top tend to give what they most want to receive. 

I did give my first real honest to goodness long spanking.  I made a few nice purple hand marks that with luck will transfer well to digital images.  My hand has some lovely bruises on it too.  It was ever so fun using the Vermont Country store bath brush on someone else in a manner similar to the way I like having it used on me.  I used my brat strap (thank you readers) my tawse, the brat loop & the double strap, but had the most fun using my hand & the brush.  

My bottom is way out of shape, but I did get a final sound spanking which was perfect and hard enough that I ended up calling ‘yellow.’  I might have lasted longer from a spanking point of view, but I got a cramp between my ribs on the left side.  Weird how something like that is harder to cope with than the bath brush being whapped down on your butt with intentional force.  Of course the cramp occurred mostly because I was bucking and trying to get my bottom out from under the brush which at the time was (of course) being applied as hard as I’d asked for it to be. 

Ahhhhhhhhhhh!   I’d forgotten how much I missed trying to sit down to pee dreading the feel of the toilet seat ring on my thighs. 

I have lovely marks.  When I get the pics, and permission to share them I will. 

At any rate, suffice to say, I had a neat first spanking party experience.  It’s something I never thought I’d do, and while I’m not really a party animal, being a wallflower simply wasn’t possible.  Even those few moments taking quiet time and standing aside was cozy, because everyone else was engaged in activity they didn’t mind if you quietly appreciated.  Dunno if I’ll make it to another party, only time will tell.  Maybe the next one I’ll go to with a partner….. 

Who knows… stranger things have happened right?  In any case, I discovered something I should have known.  Spankos are a very interesting and quite neat group of people, and you can go to a spanking party and observe only, though I dare ya to try and stay an observer after the first hour…..

Anyway… I’m still floating on spanking endorphins, so I think now might be a good time to go to bed.  Y’all be good. ;)

Love

Patty